3:29 AM
In the third part of the fat loss series I want to address the
importance of believing in you. When you watch infomercials and see
before and after pictures there is a disclaimer at the bottom that
states 'results may vary' or 'results not typical'. This is because one
of the three items was missing; commitment to make better choices, a
technology that works, or a belief that you can. If you commit to making
better choices and find a technology that works; then all that is
missing is the belief that you can.
I
find the vast majority of people when looking for the best fat loss
plans or best fat loss programs truly don't believe that they can
change. Believing and wanting to change are two different things. It is
easy to want. Saying I want to lose body fat is easy. Believing that you
can is another. Everyone wants something very few ever get what they
want.
It is not uncommon for someone to start a fat loss program
with the best of intentions. They believe they can use will power to get
them through the program. In reality will power only buys you a couple
of days. In fact will power usually doesn't kick in until day three or
four and quickly fads away between days eight and fourteen. Most fat
loss programs target this two week window. The marketing is designed to
feed upon the individuals emotional needs and achieve a fast result. The
programs are designed to provide fast results to strengthen the belief
that you can do it. Resolve gets tested. Excuses begin to arise.
Distractions become obstacles. It is at this point that distinguishes
those who can and those who won't succeed. It is the person who has a
strong enough belief in themselves that will go on to be successful. The
person that truly doesn't believe they will succeed will not. Think of
the first two weeks on a fat loss program as a jump start to developing a
habit. On average it takes 28 days to make a habit. It is going to be
your belief that you can and your commitment to make better choices that
will allow you to press on after will power is no longer the driving
force.
There are hundreds of books and resources discussing the
power of belief so I am not going to go into all the science and
research. What I am going to tell you is that if you have doubt in
yourself and you do not believe you can be successful you are selling
yourself short and I truly believe you will never be happy or satisfied
with who you are. Remember this quote "whether you think you can or can
not, you are right".
When starting a fat loss program make sure it
meets the criteria "A Technology that Works". If the program meets the
criteria then it is up to you to bring a commitment to make better
choices and a belief that you can. If all three are present you will
succeed.
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